Waiting
I have a problem with patience. It’s not my strong suit. I
hate waiting in lines. I hate waiting on anything. I’m sometimes guilty of
finishing people’s sentence when they are slow talkers. Patience is definitely
not my thing. Nor does my patience seem to improve with age, in fact quite the
opposite. The older I get, the more I struggle with waiting. The Lord still has
some refining to do on me in that area. I’m no better at waiting on the Lord
than I am anything else. His word is quite clear on this subject. He instructs
us over and over to wait on him, to be patient and wait on his answers and his
solutions. The Psalms are full of his instruction. Psalms 27:14 says, “Wait for
the Lord...” plain and simple. In Psalms 130: 6 the psalmist says he waits for
the Lord, “more than the watchman for the morning”. Psalms 147:11 says the Lord favors those who,
“… wait for His lovingkindness”. God expects us to wait. He expects us to be
patient. He will reward us if we are faithful and faith includes waiting for
him… waiting for him to answer or to act in our lives. Isaiah 40 proclaims the
coming of the Messiah (Holy One, vs.25) and ends with these words of comfort,
“Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; they will mount up
with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not
become weary”.
That’s what it’s really all about, isn’t it? We want God to
answer when we call, and he did. He sent his son to save us. The world waited
for the coming of the Messiah, and in the fullness of time, God sent him. He
sent him when the time was right, when everything was set. When all of the
other pieces of the puzzle were in place, then he placed the missing piece and
revealed his Son, Jesus the Christ.
I’ve been reading the
Christmas story again in scripture. I love to read it again and again and look
for new layers of wisdom as God tells me the story, as a father tells a child
an old favorite story. In Luke 1 we read the story of the birth of John the
Baptist, who would announce the coming of Christ. Luke tells us that his father
and mother were righteous and faithful to God (vs. 6). His name was Zacharias
and he was a Levite. She was also from the tribe of Levi and was from the
lineage of Aaron (vs. 5). Luke tells us the story of God’s revelation to
Zacharias. While he was performing his duties in the temple, burning incense,
the angel Gabriel appeared to him and told him that God had heard his prayers,
and he would have a son. Now Zacharias was old, as was his wife Elizabeth. They were well
beyond the normal age for bearing children (vs. 7). How long do you suppose it
had been since Zacharias had prayed for a son? If you were a man, who was married and wished to have children, you would of course pray
for children, if you were a man of God. How long and how often would you pray
for this… every day? How many years would you pray? I’m sure that both
Zacharias and Elizabeth had prayed many hundreds of times, maybe thousands of
times for many years, but now they are old, and they no longer expect to have
children. They must have assumed that God didn’t want them to have children.
Perhaps he was punishing them for some failure or sin in their lives. I’m
fairly certain that this idea had been suggested and discussed by their friends,
family and neighbors, perhaps behind their backs, perhaps to their faces. Being
barren and childless would have carried with it a stigma in the society that
they lived in. There was disgrace associated with being childless according to
Luke (1:25), and I think we can assume that both Zacharias and Elizabeth had
stopped waiting on the Lord to hear that prayer. They had given up on God in
that respect, and even though they remained faithful, they no longer expected
God to answer that prayer. So what a shock and surprise it must have been when
God announced to them that He had heard
their prayers, prayers long forgotten, but not forgotten by God. He had
answered their prayers in his own good time, when the time was right, and now
they would be parents. Not only would they be parents, but their son would be a
prophet, and the prophet who would announce the coming of the Messiah, in the
spirit of Elijah (vs. 17).
We can’t really blame poor Zacharias for his failure of
belief, for which he was temporarily struck dumb by Gabriel (vs. 20). Haven’t
we done the same thing? Haven’t we doubted God? Now, I realize that angels
probably haven’t made any announcements to you lately, nor have they visited
me. But we are still guilty of giving up on God at times. Not only have we
stopped praying, like Zacharias, sometimes we have even forgotten what it was
that we had prayed for. But God does not forget. Nothing slips his mind. He
hears our prayers, and he will answer them, in his own good time, in the
fullness of time, when the time is right.
What are you praying for these days? What did you use to
pray for? What did you pray for when you were young, and life was full of
promise, and everything seemed possible? What did you pray for then, but you
don’t now? Now that you are old, and maybe a little disappointed in the way
that things turned out. Maybe you never met that Mr./Ms. Wonderful. Maybe you
didn’t make it to the pros. Maybe you didn’t earn your first million before you
were thirty. Maybe you haven’t earned your first million at all, and it doesn’t
look likely, unless that lottery ticket pays out. Have you given up on God? Did
your particular wish get lost in the shuffle? Did God forget? Worse yet, maybe
he just doesn’t care.
Please, please don’t give up on God. Just you wait. He
cares. He cared enough to send his Son to save us. “But when the fullness of
time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman…”- Galatians 4:4. “”And the
Word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we beheld his glory, glory as of the
only begotten from the Father, full of grace and truth”- John 1:14. He doesn’t
forget, even if we do. He remembers every prayer that we have ever prayed, and
he keeps them all. He wants us to have every good thing that we need. He will
not fail us or forget us or accidently leave us behind, or leave us out. He can
make anything happen that he wants to happen, and he wants good things to
happen for us.
Luke 1 has another
very important lesson to teach us on this subject. The angel Gabriel also
appears to Mary, and tells her that she will conceive (miraculously) and give
birth to a child, and her child will be the Messiah (vs. 28-35). Gabriel then
informs Mary that even her cousin Elizabeth is pregnant (vs. 36). Her cousin
Elizabeth, who was too old to have a baby, was also going to have a baby
because of God’s power, and then God (thru Gabriel) tells Mary something very,
very important. He says, “For nothing will be impossible with God” (vs. 37).
Nothing is impossible with God! Mary needed to hear those words, and so do we.
God is good and faithful and he loves us and he doesn’t forget and he can do
anything. Nothing is impossible with God. We need to write those words on our
hearts. We need to get up every day and say them to ourselves and to those around
us, because they are true, and we need to live our lives like we believe that
they are true.
We need to know him
(thru his Word and Spirit). We need to follow him (thru his Son). We need to
obey him. We need to trust him, and finally, the hardest part… at least for me,
we need to wait for him. We need to wait for him in our lives and in our faith
and in our prayers.
He’s waiting for us too… imagine that! God is waiting for
you and for me. He’s standing close by, waiting. The words of the old hymn tell
us this.
Softly and tenderly
Jesus is calling,
Calling for you and for me;
See, on the portals He’s waiting and watching,
Watching for you and for me.
Calling for you and for me;
See, on the portals He’s waiting and watching,
Watching for you and for me.
Come home, come home,
You who are weary, come home;
Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling,
Calling, O sinner, come home!
You see, God has given us a choice. He wants us to choose
him. He wants us to choose to love him and obey him. He won’t act in our lives
unless we first choose him. If we don’t want him to be in our lives, then he
won’t force it. He will allow us to be on our own. But the invitation stands,
as long as we live and breath, God is waiting and watching for us.
The bible tells us that God is waiting for us too.
Revelation 3:20 says, “Behold I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears my
voice and opens the door; I will come into him, and will dine with him, and he
with me”.
The bible says, in Zechariah 10:8, “I will whistle for them
to gather them together, For I have redeemed them”. Like a shepherd whistles
for his sheep in the darkness. He’s calling us. He’s waiting for you and for
me, to answer his call. He wants to be with us. He wants to know us. He came a
long way to find us in the darkness. We don’t have to wait anymore. We just
have to open the door. We just have to answer his call. He’s waiting.